Friday, March 29, 2019

Reflection On My Style... and finding a camel coat

My first job out of college was at an advertising agency. From a career standpoint, it was enriching in that I was able to work with folks from account management, creative, strategy and analytics. So many different types of thinking, and it was a valuable learning experience coming out of school with a very left-brain education (statistics). From a style standpoint, I remember feeling so frumpy all the time, compared to the chic agency women I'd see in the elevators. Coming out of school into my first real job, I had no idea what to wear - but noticed that everyone in the building had their own very defined sense of style. I, on the other hand, did not --  and teetered between wanting so badly to look OLDER, and wanting to look COOL.

In the years that have passed, I've settled on a pretty basic-b sense of style. There aren't many patterns in my closet these days, except for maybe a striped shirt, polka dot, and the 1 plaid shirt I kept when I packed all my clothes up for the move. My winter uniform this year was a jacket, skinny jeans, a merino wool turtleneck (from Uniqlo), and ankle boots or my black Nike Roshes. If you've been a long time reader, you'll realize that this is no different than what I wore four years ago, with some upgrades in quality and silhouettes.

I remember feeling back then that my style wasn't final yet, and still feeling unhappy with my wardrobe. This is going to start sounding motivation/inspirational as fuck, but I think the reason I felt that way was because I was always shopping and dressing with clothes thinking and prioritizing how others would perceive me, whereas now, I dress for myself. A couple drivers:

⦾ Now that I'm settled into my career and matured a little bit, I don't feel the need to look older since I AM older (lol).

⦾ My jobs have changed. I'm no longer client facing, I'm working at places with different cultures, etc.

⦾ My income has risen since I started working, and I can now afford the pieces I want at the quality I'd like. Oddly, I actually buy WAY fewer items now. 

Anyway, not sure where I'm going with this. I started writing this post to talk about FINALLY finding a perfect camel coat, in the right shade of camel (one that would not wash me out), with the right look - not TOO basic, but not too structurally out there that it would be unwearable.

It's from Aritzia and runs small. I take it in an XS.


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Friday, March 22, 2019

life updates!

It has been such a busy and stressful Q1 that I haven't really been doing anything worth blogging about. But did want to record some of my life here, as it is about to change significantly.

  • My fiance accepted an amazing job based in Seattle after finishing his PhD!

  • Started planning my wedding to take place in July, SUPER short timeline, but the stars aligned and now all that's left is the tiny details. 

  • I quit my job without having one lined up for the first time in my career thus far, which gave me a ton of anxiety. But it was definitely a welcome change.

  • Flew back and forth between Chicago and Seattle to interview with a BUNCH of companies. After weighing several offers, decided to take one that I think is a great fit, on a team where I see really long term potential

  • Signed a lease in Seattle after a week long trip apartment/neighborhood hunting. Fortunately, the apartment is not too much more expensive than in Chicago, but is MUCH larger and so much newer. I'm so excited to furnish and decorate our new home.

  • Now, I'm packing up my apartment, culling my wardrobe, getting rid of furniture, and planning for the move. Fortunately my new company is helping to relocate us, which takes some of the stress away.

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Wednesday, December 12, 2018

2019 Holiday Gift Guide


I just completed my Christmas shopping, early for once! Figured I'd share what I'm either getting or would love to get for Christmas.


I can’t recommend Framebridge enough. I’ve ordered from Framebridge countless times, only via digital upload (though they do frame things you send in too!). The photo print quality is great, way better than what you would be able to get from something like a Walgreens. They have a wide selection of frames, ranging from traditional to eclectic. This year, I framed some throwback photos for my parents as a part of their Christmas gift. The process is so fast, from upload to shipping, and the prices are great given how good the product is! 


I’m fortunate to be at the point in my life where I can afford nice jewelry for myself. I love the idea of collecting little treasures to be passed down through time. I used to go through my mom’s jewelry box when I was a kid, just looking at everything. With that said, I’m giving a few jewelry gifts this Christmas to my family. My mom is getting a dainty stacking ring with 5 diamonds, for the 5 people in my family. Here are a few of my favorite shops from Etsy. 
  • Fondeur: Minimal jewelry, a lot of opal pieces that I love
  • RosadosBox: Based in Chicago, do a lot of engagement/wedding jewelry, but have a lot of everyday pieces too
  • Ferko’s Fine Jewelry: Very similar vibe to Mejuri, but better pricing. This is where I got my mom’s gift. 
  • Gouttedeterre: Based in Paris, modern but minimal ceramic jewelry

I have one of these Vlando jewelry boxes myself that I bought earlier this year. They’re made of wood, covered in a synthetic leather. Very sturdy, lots of little compartments inside, and a mirror and metal latch to close. This would be a great little gift for someone who has an extensive collection of jewelry. 


I love getting and giving pajama sets during the holidays. A lot of places do matching sets of pajamas really well. The ones I own or have given are from Uniqlo and J. Crew. 


Beurer Daylight Lamp 
We just had a week stretch in Chicago we didn't see the sun at all. I definitely felt it - low energy, meh mood. If you live in the northern hemisphere and the sun sets at 4, this would be a great gift to head off acute seasonal affective disorder. I love the look of this one - it's portable, has clean lines, and would be great on an office desk. This + a bottle of vitamin D capsules would be a great combo.

Patagonia Sweater
This is what I'm getting my brother for Christmas. I know everyone has one, but I think these are so functional. They look great in the office and make a great, thin base layer in the winter. A lot of retailers do a similar fleece jacket, but I'm always happy to support Patagonia as they do a lot of philanthropy and donate 1% of their sales to outdoor preservation. 

What are you giving to your loved ones this year?
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Wednesday, November 7, 2018

What’s in my (Cuyana) Bag + Mini Review

So I ended up getting the Cuyana structured tote and am really pleased with how it’s been holding up so far (it’s early). It’s big and roomy, versatile for work or for the weekend. The leather is really high quality and scratch resistant. I really think this will be a bag that will age quite gracefully. I was wavering back and forth with the color though… whether I wanted black or cognac. But I’m really glad I went with the cognac! 

I wrote earlier that I also bought the tote insert from Cuyana specifically for this bag, but I ended up returning it due to the extra weight and extra structure to the bag. I really liked it for the utility, but it just didn’t work out for me. That said, I do have a few things floating around the bag, but nothing unmanageable. I recently cleaned it out and took a picture. 

  • - Laptop sleeve: NO idea where I got this, but it holds my work computer, as well as my flat things (folders, papers, etc). 

  • - Manila Folder: right now, I’m wrapping up a few analyses and have printed out the reports, meeting notes, and background to look at. Every now and then, I print everything out just to give my eyes a break from Excel. 

  • - Moleskine cahier: A little notebook I keep with me to make personal notes and to-dos. Last note was a few Christmas gift ideas as it’s soon approaching!

  • - Kindle Paperwhite: Can’t live without this. Right now, I’m reading Onward: How Starbucks Fought for its Life Without Losing Its Soul. It’s written by Howard Schultz, who was the founder of Starbucks. It’s been really good so far! 

  • - Silver Bag from Laneige which contains: Mini Bite Lipstick in Chai, Travalo with Glossier You (10% off via this link), period supplies, small mirror, blotting papers, a Tide pen, and Panier des Sens hand cream. 

  • nuun immunity tablets: These are electrolyte drink tablets/immunity boosters. I dissolve one of these in my Nalgene (500ml) and drink it before I hit the gym. Now that it’s cold, the ‘immunity’ ingredients are meant to help, but I actually have no idea if they do anything other than a placebo effect 🙂 

  • Airpods: Another thing I can’t live without. Usually am listening to a podcast during my commute and they’re great to run in as well. 

  • - Gum: standard, but I always have a pack and it is always Orbit wintermint. 

  • - AMC giftcard that I was meaning to use with N.

  • - Hairtie because I always find myself without one. 

  • - Glossier Balm Dot Com (10% off via this link- Have had this for a while and love because it has lanolin in it. 

  • Nalgene 500 ml: This is the PERFECT size water bottle in my opinion. It’s small enough to carry anywhere and not feel heavy when it’s filled. It’s large enough for my day to day, as I’m almost always near a water source if I need to refill it.

  • Tory Burch wallet & smaller card wallet: Wallet carries all my cards (picked this up at an outlet a while ago), while my card wallet  only carries my building badge for work and my transit card. 

  • - Pair of socks: I don’t know why this is here. I think I must have thrown in a pair when it was raining one morning just in case my feet got soaked.

  • Wireless mouse: Another thing I CANNOT live without at work. The one I have is Logitech, and feels great in the hand. 
  • RXBAR (grabbed a sample from an Amazon Treasure Truck) & Clifbar (always have at least 1 bar in my bag in case I get hungry)

  • - Loose receipts, coupons, an “I voted bracelet”, and a grocery list 
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Tuesday, October 9, 2018

What I Wore #5...// Tote Shopping Update

  

It's been unseasonably warm this week. This may have been the last skirt I wear bare-legged in 2018! 

OUTFIT1_ 

OUTFIT2_ (First foray into non-skinny jeans... what do you all think?)

OUTFIT3_
H&M Mock Neck Sweater // Ines De La Fressange Uniqlo Corduroy Skirt // Rothy's 


I wrote earlier about my unsuccessful Form Bag purchase. I didn't realize how important the ability to expand and contract to the amount of things I needed to carry was to the 'perfect' bag. And despite how luxurious the Everlane leather was, I came to terms with how I would potentially use it and decided that it just wasn't practical.

Since then, I've been doing some more research on a work tote. I had looked at a few options: Kate Spade (rip), Everlane, Cuyana, and Longchamp. I also wanted a tote that was structured, but not too structured that it would be difficult to shove underneath the seat (I had this difficulty with the Lo and Sons tote - it either needed to stand up, or be zipped and laid sideways). Then it came down to materials. Nylon was lightweight and durable, but I really enjoy how leather smells and feels. The leather goods I do own are some of my favorite (Everlane Modern Loafers, my leather jacket, even my wallet!). 

I ended up choosing the Cuyana Structured Tote in a caramel brown. It had been out of stock for a while, but finally came back in today. I also added in the tote insert for some additional structure and organization. It was definitely pricy, but I had scoured the internet for something that was as lightweight/not bulky and still offered a laptop sleeve + waterbottle pocket. I hope this ends up working out! 
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Saturday, October 6, 2018

The Skincare Routine That Changed My Skin

Key word here is ‘Routine’… and also ‘Differin'

Starting with a little skin history... I have struggled with acne for a few years now. I’ve always had breakouts here and there during adolescents, but nothing as bad as the period during my 20s. I can pin it down to the start of the rise of K-Beauty, when I started using Missha’s Time Revolution Essence. I slowlym slowly realized that my skin does not agree with Sacharromyces Ferment and my skin broke out like it's never broken out before. 

A stint with Curology cleared my acne for the most part, but left me with weird texture issues due to closed comedones that would never go away or come to a head (no matter how many acids I used). I pared down my products to the minimum, trying to figure out what was causing my CCs, and eventually stopping Curology all together. It was then that I realized it was the Curology to begin with that was causing them! Turns out it was the sweet almond seed oil that they use in their base. After that, no new CCs popped up. Now it was a matter of getting rid of them. This is a before and after of my skin as a result of Curology, after 7 months of consistent use.

What you can’t see here is the flesh colored closed comedones. In a different light, you’d see the bumpy texture. I think at the height of it, I must have had at least 10 on each cheek. I tried AHAs and BHAs to exfoliate them away, but the biggest thing that made a difference in my skin was Differin. With its new OTC status and accompanying OTC prices, I picked up a tube of Differin at Walgreens on a whim. I read about the differin purge, the differin dryness, the differin depression...considered long and hard about whether or not I wanted to go through another stint of bad skin or not, and then gave into my routine-flightiness and slapped it on my face. After about two weeks, I was convinced I was immune to the Differin purge. I felt like my skin was getting better.

Then the purge hit.

I considered just quitting all together. Through it all, I developed a routine that I stuck to, where the products didn’t break me out and accomplished what I needed them to. I decided to stick with the Differin until the tube was through (as I had so read on reddit). My skin slowly got better. One thing that was getting me through it was looking back at my progress pics and seeing the improvement. Another was the niacinamide  that I had been using through it all. I’m convinced this, as well as the consistent use of my acid exfoliators, were helping reduce some of the scarring I had after the purge. 

Here’s a before and after with my skin today. It’s still not where I want to be - I’d love if my skin were scar-free and I didn’t have to wear concealer. But it’s at a point where it looks great with makeup on, smooth texture, etc. So I’ll take the wins where I can. 
Start of Differin Purge (left), today (right)

Here's the full routine: 


And if anyone has any secrets to helping fade acne scars, let me know in the comments!
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Thursday, October 4, 2018

My Thoughts on the Everlane Form Bag

I wrote earlier that I had put an order in on the Everlane Form Bag. I finally received it after having to exchange it once (the bag I received the first time was oddly wrinkly and it bothered me!). I wanted to share my thoughts, as I couldn’t find very many reviews up (and all of the ones I’ve seen are positive/comped)! 

What prompted my purchase?
I wanted to switch to bringing a bag to work, instead of a backpack. The hesitation to do so was that I love all the function a backpack gives me. I have both hands available to me, can pack a lot of things into it, even weight distribution on the shoulders, great for travel… the list goes on. But it isn’t appropriate to wear a backpack in some professional settings (I hate carrying it when I travel for meetings), can read a little young, and it just isn’t fashionable sometimes. 

These reasons are actually why I was immediately drawn to the Everlane Form Bag. The whole ‘a computer bag that doesn’t look like one’ pitch was an instant sell. I carry my laptop to and from work everyday, in addition to my daily carry which consists of my wireless mouse, airpods, external battery, wallet, 16 oz nalgene, and a little pouch (contains Tide stick, hand sanitizer, emergency period supplies, a mirror, and whatever lip color I happen to be wearing). This expands and contracts depending on what time of the month it is ( - period stuff) or whatever the weather happens to be (+rain jacket, +scarf/hat/gloves). 

Pros of the Form bag: 
  • * Really gorgeous design - great leather (par for the course for Everlane)
  • * The strap is super comfortable and allows for different wear (over the shoulder, cross body); distributes weight really well
  • * Magnetic closure is really nice; closes automatically, opens really easily. Gives the whole bag a really clean look.
  • * Fits just what I need, and no more
Cons of the Form bag: 
  • * Does not fit a Dell Latitude 13 inch laptop horizontally as advertised but DOES fit my Macbook Air. Have to put my laptop in vertically for it to fit. One note about even fitting a Macbook Air in - it’s really hard to do so, as the top of the bag is narrower than the bottom. You almost have to slide it in diagonally, and then readjust once it’s through the top. Then getting it out really difficult. I cringed imagining fighting with it in the morning in front of my manager. 
  • Note: My Macbook Air is 12.8 inches wide (edge to edge). My Dell Latitude is 12 inches wide (edge to edge). This was annoying, as the Everlane site mentioned that it fit a 13 inch laptop horizontally, and I believe that it does…. if you can get it through the opening at the top (which is narrower).
  • * Vertical laptop means the magnetic closure doesn’t work, so the top of the bag stays open
  • * Gets kind of lumpy when I put my daily carry (listed above) in. Really takes away from the sleek look of the bag.
  • * Fits what I need, but no more

For me, I reluctantly returned the bag as I was looking for something for work. I REALLY wanted it to work out. It was literally perfect, and had my laptop fit while allowing for the top to close, I may have thought to keep it (and just dealt with the difficult in and out). I still recommend if you don’t regularly carry a laptop to/from work OR if you have a small laptop. Definitely measure your laptop before buying this bag if you’re planning to use it that way! 
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